Jason is sick, y’all. Sore throat, body aches, runny nose, I-ain’t-up-for-much-of-anything sick. Hotguysinbed on IG because why not. What does a needy babygirl do during times like these? Well, we cry a lot. Nah, just kidding. Over the years since we’ve been doing this, I’ve learned a few ways to cope when he can’t do any of the things I crave, such as Spank me. Pay attention to me. Have sex. Discipline me. Or, you know, pretty much anything at all that’s fun and exciting in this. 😄 I know he needs his rest, and he doesn’t need me hounding him or whining, so here are a few things that take the edge off. 1.      Serve him. I ask if he needs anything. Tissues? Water? Soup? He’s a pretty self-sufficient guy, but it makes me feel good to be able to serve him in even a little capacity. 2.      Still talk. Even though he isn’t up for hours-long conversations, I try to keep him updated as much as I can on what’s going on in my hea

Sometimes, the emotional impact of things around me hits me hard. When someone I love is hurting, loses a loved one, or sadness and tragedy strike close to home, it’s difficult for me to deflect the emotions around me. That’s what happened very recently.  I needed Jason. He knew I did. I knew I did. I did everything I could on my own, managing my own self-care and what I could control, but the weight of empathic emotion grew heavy, and the submissive in me craved being put back in the right headspace. Sometimes I can put myself there. Sometimes, I need Jason.  I think it’s important for any submissive to note where that line is. Sometimes, when I hear from other submissives, they think that it’s always the job of their Dom/Domme to put them back in a submissive place, to discipline or hold them accountable, to prioritize maintenance or the like. Sometimes, it’s the opposite. Dominants expect their submissives to be able to fully maintain submission without their help. And I ha