The Lazy Submissive   I’m putting on my blunt hat. If you’re feeling particularly sensitive, maybe don’t read this one.    I know how expectations sometimes go with submissives. I’m one of them, and I know enough of you to say that one thing most every submissive has in common is the desire to not have to control this.    Seems obvious, doesn’t it?    We are the  submissive  partners. Therefore, the  dominant  partners are the ones that should initiate this. Initiate what? Well, damn near all of it.    The dominant partner should initiate sex.  The dominant partner should give us rules.  The dominant partner should be demanding we do maintenance.  The dominant partner should decide when to discipline.    And some of us take it a step further.    The dominant partner should tell me how to plan my day.  The dominant partner should give me structure, accountability, and guidelines.  The dominant partner should manage my diet goals.  The dominant partner should pick out my clothes.   And